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Notes on Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott

9/5/2025

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I recently finished reading Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott, which I had heard about a long time ago from Tim Ferriss. It reminded me of other books about writing I had read like The War of Art, Do the Work, and Daily Rituals. Anne's book is beautifully written and poignant; it made me sad, and it made me laugh out loud many times. Of course it had to do with writing, but it was much deeper than that and was philosophical about life in general in many places, which I appreciated. The advice in the book is useful for all writers and all humans.

​Below are my main notes and takeaways.

​Writing is capturing truth of world
Getting started
Write down all of childhood memories and gifts and birthdays and awkward moments
Short assignments
Look through one inch picture frame and just write down that piece of the puzzle 
Describe bird by bird
Shitty first drafts
Childlike pouring out of content
First Down draft to write down
Second Up draft to fix it up
Third Demo draft to check it all 
Perfectionism
Muscles cramp and limit us
School lunches
Write down about school lunches
Contents of lunch reveal insides of your family
Polaroids
First draft is like watching a Polaroid develop
Never know what picture will come out
Character
Emerges as it develops
What is each person’s acre growing
What do they do inside
What would they do if they only had 6 months to live. Would they keep flossing?
Lies to eventually tell the truth
Don’t think you know more about your characters than they do 
Plot
Dream must be vivid and continuous
Setup, buildup, payoff
There must be movement
Climax will reveal itself to you over time
Action, background, people, climax, ending
Dialogue
Sound your words
Listen to how people really talk
Observe and store away
Be able to identify each character by words they say and they all can’t sound like you
You’re just the typist. A good typist listens. 
Set design
Every room is a memory and reflection of who we are
These rooms are future ruins
False starts
Discovering something from characters and story
Plot treatment
Write down what happens in various scenes in lots of detail 
How do you know when you’re done
You just do
Go over something so many times and then something inside you says to move on to the next thing

Part 2 writing frame of mind

Looking around 
Writing is observing
Need compassion for others
Feeling of oneness with others
Moral point of view
Need to care about what you’re writing
Broccoli
Listen to your broccoli and it will tell you how to eat it
Radio station kfkd
Endless monkey chatter in brain
Self aggrandizing
Self criticism
Quiet your head
Notice the station is on
Prayer to quiet the voice
Small ritual
Slow conscious breathing to ground you in silence
Align yourself with the river of the story
Jealousy
Money brings more problems

Part 3 help along the way

Index cards
Notes and lists
See everything as material
Write down all thoughts 
Index cards can prompt short assignments to get you writing
Calling around
Learn from others
Call and ask questions to learn new things or words
Writing groups
Good for feedback
Creative writing class or conference
Someone to read your drafts
Honest feedback good
Criticism hard to take
Respect and encouragement during feedback not crushing the other person
Letters
Tell your or character’s history in a letter
Write to your children about your own childhood or about their childhood
Picture your children later reading your story
Writer’s block
Write something everyday
Live as if dying
Be present
Fill yourself up on observations
Commit to finishing sections of stories daily
Make commitment to the characters in your story 
Spend time outdoors
Resign as controller of your fate
Life is like a recycling center
You can offer your own sensibilities 
Everything you need is within you
Do your 300 words then go for a walk

Part 4 publication and other reasons to write

Writing a present
Writing something for someone else to read as a gift
Learning from your kids
Write for those you love and respect
Finding your voice
Emulating others is just a temporary prop
Truth of your experience can only come out in your voice
Giving
Writing is giving
Publication
Not that glamorous
Reviews tough
The real payoff is the writing itself
Satisfaction from daily work
World can’t give you serenity. It comes from inside. It also can’t take it away. 

Part 5 the last class

Write about childhood
Wrote toward vulnerability and emotion
Be afraid of not getting your witting done
Change character details from reality to prevent libel
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